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FAQ

On this page you will find answers to frequently asked questions regarding ourWorkshops, coaching and private sessions. If you don't find the answer you're looking for here,please email us directly with your question

  • Do I have to like pain, submission or other specific elements of BDSM to book your services?
    Not at all! We love and practice kink for the vast and diverse space it offers us to explore, feel and expand - and to find the places for us that feel comfortable, exciting and fulfilling. For us, too, there are practices and dynamics in the kink that are not right for us. Exploring our ever-changing sensual playfulness and learning how to manage our wants, needs and limitations is part of the journey into ourselves. The offers we make are tailored in such a way that you can explore your individual wishes, needs and fantasies as safely as possible. We want to empower and support you to make your own experiences within the framework of our offers at the pace, in the form and in the intensity that is right for you.
  • What kind of people participate in your offers?
    We are convinced that human sexuality deserves to be made visible in all its forms. Therefore, we welcome all genders and sexual orientations. Diversity of gender, sexual preference, ability, experience and age creates, in our experience, an unparalleled environment for inspiration and freedom. The age of our participants ranges from 20-50+, with the average being around 30-40. However, in our quest to create a nurturing, safe, and benevolent space for learning and exploration, we place great value on the reflective capacity and intentions of our participants and their ability to move respectfully and harmoniously within the setting of our events . Some of our participants have already explored tantra or the BDSM scene - others are taking their first steps into this world with us. What they all have in common is that they engage in workshops, sessions and coaching, investing time, emotions and money to explore, grow and find a deeper connection to themselves and others. If you want to get a better impression of those who have already attended our events, you can here learn more.
  • Are your events safe spaces?
    As professional kink educators, we have extensive experience in creating and maintaining safer* spaces of learning and discovery for curious people. However, it is important to realize that no space is ever completely secure. Our measures to make our offerings as safe as possible for everyone include, but are not limited to: every person in the room is sober and is encouraged to maintain a high level of mindfulness; we have an anti-abuse policy and part of all events is teaching and practicing consent negotiation. Additionally, we're available if you need help navigating emerging triggers, finding your way around the room, or speaking to us one-on-one.
  • What should I consider if I come to you with my partner or friends?
    We are happy to welcome you and your partner/friends in any constellation. In our events you always have the opportunity to decide for yourself whether you want to do certain exercises together or with other participants. We also recommend that you and your loved ones have a conversation beforehand that will help you experience our offering harmoniously and with fun. Questions to discuss might include: - Do I have any wishes, limitations or fears regarding the exercises and dealing with other participants? - What types of interactions are okay in our relationship? what feels too much - How do we communicate and negotiate in the scope of the workshops? (check-ins, permission to interact, etc.)? - What can we do to respect each other while meeting each other's needs and desires? - What strategies do we have to deal with any triggers or discrepancies?
  • What kind of gender ratio do you have in your events?
    Our events are open to all curious, reflective and respectful people. We do not force a balance between socially standardized genders. Participants have TBE
  • Do I have to like pain, submission or other specific elements of BDSM to book your services?
    Not at all! We love and practice kink for the vast and diverse space it offers us to explore, feel and expand - and to find the places for us that feel comfortable, exciting and fulfilling. For us, too, there are practices and dynamics in the kink that are not right for us. Exploring our ever-changing sensual playfulness and learning how to manage our wants, needs and limitations is part of the journey into ourselves. The offers we make are tailored in such a way that you can explore your individual wishes, needs and fantasies as safely as possible. We want to empower and support you to make your own experiences within the framework of our offers at the pace, in the form and in the intensity that is right for you.
  • What kind of people participate in your offers?
    We are convinced that human sexuality deserves to be made visible in all its forms. Therefore, we welcome all genders and sexual orientations. Diversity of gender, sexual preference, ability, experience and age creates, in our experience, an unparalleled environment for inspiration and freedom. The age of our participants ranges from 20-50+, with the average being around 30-40. However, in our quest to create a nurturing, safe, and benevolent space for learning and exploration, we place great value on the reflective capacity and intentions of our participants and their ability to move respectfully and harmoniously within the setting of our events . Some of our participants have already explored tantra or the BDSM scene - others are taking their first steps into this world with us. What they all have in common is that they engage in workshops, sessions and coaching, investing time, emotions and money to explore, grow and find a deeper connection to themselves and others. If you want to get a better impression of those who have already attended our events, you can here learn more.
  • Are your events safe spaces?
    As professional kink educators, we have extensive experience in creating and maintaining safer* spaces of learning and discovery for curious people. However, it is important to realize that no space is ever completely secure. Our measures to make our offerings as safe as possible for everyone include, but are not limited to: every person in the room is sober and is encouraged to maintain a high level of mindfulness; we have an anti-abuse policy and part of all events is teaching and practicing consent negotiation. Additionally, we're available if you need help navigating emerging triggers, finding your way around the room, or speaking to us one-on-one.
  • What should I consider if I come to you with my partner or friends?
    We are happy to welcome you and your partner/friends in any constellation. In our events you always have the opportunity to decide for yourself whether you want to do certain exercises together or with other participants. We also recommend that you and your loved ones have a conversation beforehand that will help you experience our offering harmoniously and with fun. Questions to discuss might include: - Do I have any wishes, limitations or fears regarding the exercises and dealing with other participants? - What types of interactions are okay in our relationship? what feels too much - How do we communicate and negotiate in the scope of the workshops? (check-ins, permission to interact, etc.)? - What can we do to respect each other while meeting each other's needs and desires? - What strategies do we have to deal with any triggers or discrepancies?
  • What kind of gender ratio do you have in your events?
    Our events are open to all curious, reflective and respectful people. We do not force a balance between socially standardized genders. Participants have TBE
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